Proposing for Marriage
August 17, 2007
Sometimes the way to marriage might be very difficult in a relationship, and if you are not careful, it might finish even before its beginning.
Firstly, let’s see what kind of relationships exists. Attraction for a person of the other sex might begin since a very early age. Boys and girls like spending time together even if they don’t recognize it when adults ask them.
During teenage, boys and girls begin to explore their bodies; they are curious to start their sexual life and usually their love is very intense and short, and both boys and girls change their partners very easily.
Girls think of marriage at an earlier age than boys, and their need to have a stable relationship is more acute. This happens maybe because they grow more quickly than boys, and of course women get old more quickly than men.
In the past, proposing for marriage was big deal. The young man used to buy the engagement ring and offered it to his future wife, following a kind of ritual, in a romantic environment, like the seaside, or on the occasion of a romantic dinner, with flowers and candles on the table, and a bottle of champagne. The woman is that day the happiest creature in the world.
On the other hand, nowadays some boys are very shy and they sometimes wait for the girls to propose for marriage. Or most of the boys are afraid of marriage, especially those boys who were spoiled by their mothers. We live in a world in which emotions are disappearing quickly and a proposing for marriage means only buying a ring, maybe a very expensive one, and then preparing a fantastic wedding. Everything is based now on business, money, evolution on the social ladder. Many people get married because they are afraid of loneliness. Others are motivated by the fact that their partner is very rich, and love for them is just a word in the dictionary.
There are a lot of factors which might be taken into account when you want to get married. One of them is your future partner’s family. Some people say, that in the case of a man, before proposing for marriage it should be recommended to watch his future mother-in-law, because she is an essential “piece” in the puzzle of a marr
iage, and sometimes she has great influence upon her daughter’s decision. But she can also influence her son’s decision, too, but it isn’t the case in this article. So when you want to make a marriage proposal, take a bunch of flowers and give it to your future mother in law. You will get only advantages out of it.
However, romantic people still exist, and there are nowadays too, boys who change the marriage proposing moment into a magic one. For those who believe in destiny and in finding their soul mate, it will be very easy to feel when they found real love, with which they will spend the rest of their lives.
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