Arranged Marriage VS Love Marriage
January 2, 2007
Even if it is hard to believe nowadays, when freedom of thinking is a natural feature of the members of the society, there are families who arrange their children’s marriage, for different purposes. One of them would be to get more fortune, if both families are rich. Another type of arranged marriage is when the woman, in general develops a sick passion for a man, and he does not notice this, neither is attracted to that woman. In these cases those desperate women appeal to different tricks in order to attract the beloved man’s attention. And they have more methods, beginning with the classical method of getting pregnant or even using unconventional methods, based on white, even black magic. According to statistics, irrespective of the type of arranged marriage, it does not lead to any good result. Nobody has the right to force the destiny. Even if these marriages are happy at the beginning, there comes a moment when the broken rules try to set the things back again, and then, there occur a series of unwanted events, which finally will lead to the separation of the arranged couple.
It is said that each of us has a soul mate, and we don’t have to look for it, because it is God’s job. Hinduism promotes the theory of reincarnation. They say that we all meet our soul mate at least once during one life, and the final purpose of a human is to remake the initial sphere, made of both male and female soul. And those who are not able to get married during one life, maybe they will be able during their next life. Anyway, all of this is speculation.
Love marriage is more concrete, it is easier, and all the steps to the altar are natural, without obstacles. Love is not just chemical reaction during the sexual act. It is something deeper. When you really love a person, your soul vibrates in the same time with his or her soul. His or her problems are yours, and you can’t do anything without both agreeing upon it.
Love marriages are as happy as sunny days, and all their memories are dear to you and
they are held in your mind like in a priceless album. They might be the day you met for the first time – you sometimes remember even the clothes you wore that day, the love songs you used to listen together, the birth of your first child, the day your child said “mum” or “dad” for the first time, and after that one memory after the other can fill your life. And when you are old you can say that you haven’t lived in vain, that your life was happy.
When marriage is arranged, even if after some time you get used to your husband and wife, the relationship is still an artificial one. Those who arrange the marriage most of the times think that love will come soon after the marriage, but this is wrong. You will always feel trapped and soon after the marriage you would like to find a real love, and your arranged partner will be jealous and all your life will be a mess.
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